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Attachment: a safe base for exploring

This engaging of adults is part of what we call attachment. It is a special bond between babies and the significant adults in their lives. When a securely attached baby is in the presence of these adults, her sense of security and comfort is heightened. The baby uses the adults as a safe place from which to go out and explore the world. When she encounters a threat of any kind, such as unusual sights, sounds, or situations, she needs to be able to return quickly to the arms of a trusted adult for comfort and reassurance. When babies develop a strong sense of trust during their first year, they become attached to the important people in their lives.

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Nighttime Attachment Parenting

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Attachment and what babies tag as important

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Harlow's monkeys wanted comfort, not food

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Romanian orphans and the window for bonding

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Over-attentive parents smother attachment

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Baby is an inexperienced ally, not an enemy

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