Theories of Childhood, Second Edition (Carol Garhart Mooney) / quote 32 of 70
Learning to cope in small doses
Current studies (Young-Eisendrath 2008) as well as Montessori’s original work on developing independence and Magda Gerber’s 1997 (among her other) work on competence have all stressed the importance of learning to cope. Babies whose needs are consistently met quickly can learn to cope with small amounts of distress. Parents and teachers need the confidence to let them try to cope in small doses. It’s a matter of balance.