Michele Pasin / Quotes

Chasing golden eggs in a marriage

In the human area, the P/PC Balance is equally fundamental, but even more important, because people control physical and financial assets. When two people in a marriage are more concerned about getting the golden eggs, the benefits, than they are in preserving the relationship that makes them possible, they often become insensitive and inconsiderate, neglecting the little kindnesses and courtesies so important to a deep relationship.

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#marriage #relationship #effectiveness

Four sources of conflict for new parents

There is hope. We know four of the most important sources of marital conflict in the transition to parenthood: sleep loss, social isolation, unequal workload…

Brain Rules for Baby (John Medina) #marriage #parents #relationship

Perceptual asymmetry at the heart of conflict

The story of the car keys involves a change in perspective, which I like to describe as “What is obvious to you is obvious to you.” My father did not see what…

Brain Rules for Baby (John Medina) #perception #relationship #psychology #marriage

Prigionieri della stabilità

“Anche con lei era tutto lì, da subito” dice lui. “La prima volta che l’ho vista. La stabilità e i limiti della stabilità.” “Ma sei andato avanti lo stesso”…

Leielui (italian Edition) (de Carlo, Andrea) #relationship #routine #depression #marriage

The Four Grapes of Wrath

Why will you fight? I mentioned four consistent sources of marital conflict in the transition to parenthood. Left to their own devices, all can profoundly…

Brain Rules for Baby (John Medina) #marriage #parents #sleep #relationship

Avoid tempting situations

Our knowledge of situationism should be used to build character more wisely, not to give up on it. For example, John Doris takes as one lesson the idea that…

The Ego Trick (baggini, Julian) #virtue #situation #character #marriage

Empathy needs understanding, not solutions

Research shows that 70 percent of marital conflicts are not resolvable; the disagreement remains. As long as the participants learn to live with their…

Brain Rules for Baby (John Medina) #empathy #marriage #parents #understanding