Michele Pasin / Quotes

Parenting is about developing hearts

Seeing his personality blossom was truly a gift. This is the message I want to leave you with as we part ways. As a new parent, you may feel sometimes that all children do is take from you, but it is just a form of giving in disguise. Kids present you with an ear infection, but what they are really giving you is patience. They present you with a tantrum, but they are really giving you the honor of witnessing a developing personality. Before you know it, you’ve raised up another human being. You realize what a great privilege it is to be a steward of another life. I said that parenting is all about developing human brains, but my aim was inches too high. Parenting is all about developing human hearts. There is no idea in this book more important for new parents than that one.

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#parents #heart #love #children

Adults who do too much for children

It is clear that Montessori had strong feelings about the tendency of adults to undermine children’s competence by doing too much for them. She used the word…

Theories of Childhood, Second Edition (Carol Garhart Mooney) #autonomy #parents #children #maturity

Daily behavior betrays how we feel

pressing problems, immediate concerns, and outward behaviors. I become reactive. And the way I interact with my children every day often bears little…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #parents #children #feelings #behavior

Family as a center undermines the family

Another common center is the family. This, too, may seem to be natural and proper. As an area of focus and deep investment, it provides great opportunities…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #family #parents #children #identity

Focusing on what we couldn't control

As long as we focused our efforts on those things, we accomplished nothing, except to increase our own feelings of inadequacy and helplessness and to…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #parents #control #children

Helping our son without really believing in him

we began to realize that what we were doing to help our son was not in harmony with the way we really saw him.

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #perception #parents #children

I figli che crescono e si allontanano

Fino all’anno scorso avevano la naturalezza di una piccola tribù di selvaggi: la costante ricerca di contatto fisico e mentale, la sovrapposizione continua di…

Leielui (italian Edition) (de Carlo, Andrea) #children #parents #family #changes