Michele Pasin / Quotes

Why human childhood lasts so long

It’s a question that bothers many evolutionary scientists: How come it takes so long to raise a human child? Aside from perhaps a whale or two, we have the longest childhood on the planet. Where did this decades-long sojourn come from, and why don’t other animals have to go through what we do? Just a couple of delightful things we human parents endure:

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#childhood #evolution #children #parents

Parents' own childhoods influence childrens development

In this way we come full circle. The emotional disturbances in parents which hinder the natural development of dependence and independence in their children…

The Growth Of Independence In The Young Child #children #parents #childhood

Psychic determinism

Psychic determinism basically says your parents did it to you. Your upbringing, your childhood experience essentially laid out your personal tendencies and…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #determinism #parents #childhood

Adults who do too much for children

It is clear that Montessori had strong feelings about the tendency of adults to undermine children’s competence by doing too much for them. She used the word…

Theories of Childhood, Second Edition (Carol Garhart Mooney) #autonomy #parents #children #maturity

Daily behavior betrays how we feel

pressing problems, immediate concerns, and outward behaviors. I become reactive. And the way I interact with my children every day often bears little…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #parents #children #feelings #behavior

Family as a center undermines the family

Another common center is the family. This, too, may seem to be natural and proper. As an area of focus and deep investment, it provides great opportunities…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #family #parents #children #identity

Focusing on what we couldn't control

As long as we focused our efforts on those things, we accomplished nothing, except to increase our own feelings of inadequacy and helplessness and to…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #parents #control #children