Michele Pasin / Quotes

Independence is not supreme

It’s easy to see that independence is much more mature than dependence. Independence is a major achievement in and of itself. But independence is not supreme. Nevertheless, the current social paradigm enthrones independence. It is the avowed goal of many individuals and social movements. Most of the self-improvement material puts independence on a pedestal, as though communication, teamwork, and cooperation were lesser values. But much of our current emphasis on independence is a reaction to dependence—to

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#interdependence #culture #maturity

The death of the grown-up

she describes the parents who are serving their children in a way that is detrimental to their children’s growth and development. Another contemporary writer…

Theories of Childhood, Second Edition (Carol Garhart Mooney) #maturity #parents #culture #autonomy

Adults who do too much for children

It is clear that Montessori had strong feelings about the tendency of adults to undermine children’s competence by doing too much for them. She used the word…

Theories of Childhood, Second Edition (Carol Garhart Mooney) #autonomy #parents #children #maturity

Children create grown-ups

You may think that grown-ups create children. The reality is that children create grown-ups. They become their own person, and so do you. Children give so…

Brain Rules for Baby (John Medina) #children #parents #maturity

Free spirits have contempt for that which is called their "duty"

It may be conjectured that a soul in which the type of "free spirit" can attain maturity and completeness had its decisive and deciding event in the form of a…

Human, All Too Human: A Book For Free Spirits #soul #types #spirit #maturity

I calzoni corti degli uomini adulti

“Senti” dice lui. “Quando ero bambino, la cosa che sognavo di più era arrivare al giorno in cui avrei potuto liberarmi per sempre dei calzoni corti. Erano un…

Leielui (italian Edition) (de Carlo, Andrea) #maturity #men #society #rules

Immaturità o indipendenza?

Nella metropolitana cerca di capire il significato della sua reazione istantanea alla telefonata di Stefano: insofferenza rispetto ai doveri, paura degli…

Leielui (italian Edition) (de Carlo, Andrea) #freedom #maturity #relationship