Michele Pasin / Quotes

Multiplicity is a spectrum

Could it not rather be the case that the extent to which we perceive ourselves as one or many is in fact highly variable? That’s what the science writer Rita Carter came to believe after researching her book Multiplicity. ‘Multiplicity is a spectrum,’ she told me when I caught up with one of her selves near their home in Oxfordshire. ‘At the very extreme you have people with multiple-personality disorder who jump totally from one discrete personality to another. At the other end you have people who are almost entirely integrated, so that you can cut, slice them at any time, meet them in any context, and you will see the same recognisable things. I think both of those extremes are rare and most of us cluster in the middle.’

Saved 23 April 2015

#multiple-selves #dissociation #personality

Character communicates most eloquently

But secondary traits alone have no permanent worth in long-term relationships. Eventually, if there isn’t deep integrity and fundamental character strength…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #character #relationship #personality #communication

Erikson's eight ages of man

Erikson’s theory of psychosocial development, which is called the Eight Ages of Man, covers the entire life span of a human being. It is Erikson’s idea that…

Theories of Childhood, Second Edition (Carol Garhart Mooney) #child-development #identity #personality #psychology

Fromm on the automaton personality

In the words of Erich Fromm, an astute observer of the roots and fruits of the Personality Ethic: Today we come across an individual who behaves like an…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #personality #self #identity

Getting by in artificial social systems

In the short run, in an artificial social system such as school, you may be able to get by if you learn how to manipulate the man-made rules, to “play the…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #personality #education #behavior

Letting our son's personality emerge

We decided to relax and get out of his way and let his own personality emerge. We saw our natural role as being to affirm, enjoy, and value him. We also…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #parent-child-relationship #personality #self

Nature vs nurture is a misplaced dychotomy

The most elementary error that people make in interpreting the effects of genes versus those of the environment is to assume that you can truly separate one…

Edge.org #human-personality #personality