Michele Pasin / Quotes

We are what we do

‘We are responsible for our actions not because they are our products but because they are us, because we are what we do.’9 However, her view is not an excessively romantic one. Self-creation is not heroic but necessary. ‘Every human being must make himself into someone in particular, in order to have reasons to act and live. Carving out a personal identity for which we are responsible is one of the inescapable tasks of human life.’10 Indeed, in order to do this, we have to adopt ‘practical identities’ which will define us socially, and these may be radically contingent.

Saved 23 April 2015

#self-creation #responsibility #action #personal-identity

Taking initiative is not being pushy

Our basic nature is to act, and not be acted upon. As well as enabling us to choose our response to particular circumstances, this empowers us to create…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #proactivity #responsibility #action

Admit and correct mistakes at once

Our response to any mistake affects the quality of the next moment. It is important to immediately admit and correct our mistakes so that they have no power…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #mistakes #responsibility

Concern at least as big as influence

Though they may have to prioritize the use of their influence, proactive people have a Circle of Concern that is at least as big as their Circle of Influence…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #proactivity #responsibility #power

Covering up a mistake is a second mistake

But not to acknowledge a mistake, not to correct it and learn from it, is a mistake of a different order. It usually puts a person on a self-deceiving…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #mistakes #self #responsibility

Dependence, independence and interdependence

On the maturity continuum, dependence is the paradigm of you—you take care of me; you come through for me; you didn’t come through; I blame you for the…

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Stephen R. Covey) #interdependence #maturity #responsibility

Drowning in collective pain

How come, I asked, you are so disgusted with yourself when you can’t even remember who you are? True, I had long forgotten who I was; let alone why I was so…

The Acid Diaries (Christopher Gray) #pain #morality #responsibility #psychedelics #self